"What? It's only a big deal if you decide to make it one." he defended and I was baffled.
"Hold on. So you mean to tell me that our kids were defending themselves from racists and you don't understand why it had to become physical? You cant just simply walk away from something like that Shiwoo. Racism is no joke."
"Yeah I know that it is not a joke, but come on. There is no reason to get physically over a word."
"Its a derogatory word Shiwoo! They were degrading our children for being mixed! What about this don't you get!? It's not just some word, and the twins, nor any body for that matter should not have to just walk away and deal with it. Look I know that you will never understand what it's like being black, especially in Asia, but the kids and I do, and it is not easy."
